Ok, I wasn't going to respond to this...but I decided to anyway.
Originally Posted By: fish 2/27/08
While this journey is far from over, I believe that my W and I will spend the rest of our lives together and it will be extraordinary. I think the past 5 months was an amazing learning experience, it provided each of us the time and space to re-discover what we want out of life which will position us to be better partners. The one thing that kept us together was our chemistry, there is something between us that cannot be put into words.
Fish, this is what you wrote about your wife less than 2 months ago! You were sure about your W then...now you are sure about this OW. Now suddenly your W is evil. Give me a break. You say that to justify YOUR actions.
The way you write things I always have to wonder "who is he trying to convince....himself or us?" You really have these knee-jerk reactions to everything. I have thought this through every stage of your journey...from piecing, to divorcing, and now with this OW. It is all or none with you. You REALLY need to take some time to work on yourself.
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The fact that after a few weeks of R she is also committed to helping you re-build the bond with your D makes me wanna barf.
Ditto.
I done too. Flush. I am axious to see what AmyC says...if she even bothers to comment on this.
