((((GF)))) I am so sorry about the argument with your H. Don't beat yourself up for getting angry. I would have too.
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I think someone asked me on another thread that if I didn't have children with H, would I still have taken him back?
I asked you this question...and really it was an unfair question. I asked it because I was wondering if I might have more fight in me if I had children.
You HAVE seen the H you wanted since he came back, so keep that in mind. You two haven't lived together for 3 YEARS! That is definately going to be an adjustment. Is he against going to counseling? I really think it would help you two with communication, which seems to be the biggest issue.