Oh fish, you are just a glutton for punishment, aren't you? OK, where to start. firstly, you are so far out in La La land that you can't see this train is a wreck just waiting to happen. You've now chosen to re-write your marital history by painting your W as "evil" (just like all WAS's do) and you've even collected evidence from her "friends" to back it up, how convenient that all these facts just happen to fit with the actions you've chosen to take in ending the M. Next, you've now put the new woman on a pedestal, being all good. Can you really honestly describe a woman who takes up with her friends H before the M is even cold as someone with "integrity"? Give me a break! The fact that after a few weeks of R she is also committed to helping you re-build the bond with your D makes me wanna barf. Don't let this woman anywhere near your D until you've been together for a long while and you are sure this is going to be long term. Think about your D fish, the impact this person and your new R will have on her. Please stop letting this short term chemical imbalance in your brain run your life. Think, think, think! You've built yourself a fantasy world and such a world tends to have a tough time fighting off reality for too long. OK, I'm done, flush now.
