I agree with the others, it often strikes me that you have to ask permission when you can see your own D, but the courts havent even rules who has what custody yet, so why should you let her decide all the time? I would tell her when she can have her back, that kind of thing! Why not?
Your W is so childish... you make a perfectly nice and fair suggestion.. you have D this weekend for your birthdays, I'll have her next weekend.. and her answer to that is that you are a bad father !!??? Its just peverse. Her view of the world is quite twisted at the moment. I can only wonder how she is managing to conduct a healthy R with a new man the way she reacts to you and all the situations that crop up. She seems so bitter and paranoid alot of the time. Anyway, I thikn its brilliant that you are getting so much help from the DB coaches, becuase your sitch is a minefield right now, you have to tread so carefully!! Sounds like you are doing a really good job though and things havent escalated further (and she has dropped some of her earlier more ludicrous accusations).
How are you feeling about your W now then? Do you still love her? I was just wondering becuase she must surely be testing your love to the limits with the way she has been behaving, but I'm sure you still do.
Any news from the parenting evaluator yet? It does seem to be dragging on...
Ali ________________ Me: 37 BF: 34 T: 9 years IDLYA: 2 Nov 07 Own flat: 26 Jan 08 Depression confirmed: 4 Mar backing off?
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
