Klm I am not sure where you are in your sitch... I HAVE NOT SNOOPED in months.... But I am in limbo... When I get back from camping I am going to check out the phone log...
I had not snooped in months either, and then I did...I'm not even sure why, maybe out of boredom. I didn't like what I saw, but I felt like I needed to see it. I am the kind of person who HAS to know. Maybe the need to validate is controlling, but it isn't like I can just trust what my H tells me. I am not encouraging your to do it...just letting you know I understand the need.
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this is what is making my sitch soo hard... I mean things are not that bad... we don't fight. No yelling. No physical abuse... BUT NO INTMACY... so things are not good either.
This is how my sitch is too. We don't fight, things are friendly...but I find myself asking "is this good enough?" I have come to the conclusion that it isn't...but I am struggling with how to approach it.
I hope you have a great time with you son this weekend. I am sure you are both looking forward to it.
