Sounds like our Hs have something else in common. My Hs dad died when he was 57 also from cancer. FWIW I think this is partly responsible for thier MLC.

Now that I come to think of it both cancer and D run in my Hs family. What was I thinking of when I M him?

Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15