Thanks all for stopping by \:\) In answer to questions: I don't journal, have tried Cing but haven't found anyone who understands DBing - so far, they are all into 'moving on' (reading and reflecting helps me the most), I walk for 30 minutes every morning, a lifesaver, and now that spring is finally here, I get to play in the dirt!

The 48-hour rule is a wonderful thing - I would have done lots of ranting and raving over the past several months if I didn't make myself wait for a couple of days. Having managed to get through the past two days without crying, etc., (at least in front of my H), I have decided to just ask him if he would be willing to complete the quiz in the Five Love Languages, so I can get a better idea of what's important to him going forward. I'm hoping he'll also ask to see my responses, but I won't offer.

One of the reasons I've not been on the board for a couple of months is the difficulty I have getting off once I'm here, but since I don't want my children to starve today, I'd better go start the process of getting them ready for school. Hope to check in with everyone later.