FWIW: S17 does not divulge information his dad shares with him.

The only thing he told me the other day is that his dad is very afraid of me because of the text H sent me on my way to work which basically said:

I can't do this anymore. I am miserable.

As for the girls, H does not spend time with them hardly at all and if/when he does, it is how is the weather type conversation if any at all.

The split has to do with how H has treated the kids from the beginning of this ordeal.

If you'll recall, H told all of the kids he was having an affair, then he would get drunk and call OW in front of the girls and tell them that he was talking to his baby. H never would do these things in front of S17. The girls had to endure a lot more then S17 could ever imagine.

I do not say anything negative about H at all so what their opinions are, are based on his actions and words.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19