after h and I had a horrible counseling session, he decided that he is moving out next week. He will have daughter on weekends.

I don't even know how I feel right now. In a way it's a relief because I felt like I was tip-toeing around him everyday, esp. after affair, when I knew he was on phone with her, etc. It has been very, very hard!

And on the positives -- I get my weekends free! (just trying to be positive here). He will be here this weekend but is moving out on Monday. In a way since he has been spending nights out already, I've gotten used to him being gone in a sense.

anyway, I'm at the point where I don't know if I should continue to hope for my marriage. He seems very set in his mind that this is what he wants. And I want to be happy and feel "normal" again. this has been torture, esp when I found out about affair and he started spending nights out.

any insights as to how to get through this will be appreciated.