Sorry, didn't explain. She & parents are paying me a fair price for my stake in the house. I know with my name on the mortgage, the debt continues to be mine, though she and her family are fairly well off. I will talk to a financial adviser and atty - just wondered if anyone had opinions. The way she made it sound seemed acceptable to me, though i don't really get anything out of it other than not having to deal with selling the house. I don't know - maybe I'll push back a little and see what she does. But if there is a legal document requiring her to refinance and get my name of the mortgage within a certain time period, that seems okay to me. I might require her father be part of the agreement as guarantor.
Even though I'm still analyzing our conversations, I feel myself continuing to let go - not as interested in her as I have been. Thank god - is there light at the end of the tunnel?
