I think that going Dark/Dim. Is wonderful. For you. I think your heart needs a break from the ups and downs. I know you love her, and want to be there for her.
I just want you to focus and pamper and love yourself, you deserve it.
She needs to miss you, and feel the loss of you.
She is used to you always being there.
Sometimes you give an inch and people take a yard.
Detaching, to me. Is something that just comes over you. You will no longer react to what they say, or do.
Focus on you and your D. Spring is coming. Look up stuff for the both of you to do together.
Just the 2 of you. If your W wants to join you guys . cool. If she doesn't that is cool too, b/c you are going to be in the company of your daughter.
Doing anything for a reaction from her, never works sweetie.
You used to tell me that. Remember?
Yes, you are wonderful. Don't let anyone ever tell you or make you feel other wise.
Have a wonderful weekend.
HUGS
Live Simply Love Generously Care Deeply Speak Kindly Leave the rest to God
