Will give only one opinion.... do not speak to your children about your H at all... No discussions, no comments no questions nothing. Do not ask if he txts or calls.
I am telling you this from experience. I was right were you are 16 months ago when H left for a 3rd time and he talked my son and used him as a sounding board knowing it would get back to me.
Once the lines of communication stopped.... he had to communicate with me.
the kids will resent being put in the middle and it happens.
you have always had good communication with him and he came to the house.
I believe now you need to stop the daddy talk and get the kids focused on them and things to do with out involving him.
some how we get stuck in the middle and end up looking like the bad guy.
yous s and H's R... teenager and mlc teenager... most likely.
{{{hugs}}}
m24 yrs h 50 me 47 s 21 s 17 left 5-30-06, and 12-4-06 still gone.............
