I totally agree that S17 should not be the one H relies on to talk to.

There already is a huge split between the girls and their brother because H always calls S17. Do you think H called the girls when he left or texted them? Nope not at all which is very sad.

H does not communicate with the girls much at all.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19