Yes, My W has told the MC from the very beginning that she is there to work this out so we can be freinds for our daughter.
My W has also told the MC that she sees me making changes and that I am working hard but that she can't get the feelings back for me that sghe once had.
I have not spoken to an attorney yet but plan to next week. I am sure I will contesat the D due to some of the things in the papers. I would like a little more visitation than she is offering. I am not sure how long the wait is on a divorce in Tennessee. I know there will be co-parenting classes that have to be taken and I'm sure there will mediation.
I know there are small positives but I don't really know what they mean. The MC is helping more than anything I think. We are still in the same house so we still cook for each other and all that. We are in separate beds/rooms. There is still some contact but not intimate. She let me rub her feet last night while she rubbed my back...so she had her legs wrapped around my waste. We are talking about everyday things. We are having fun with our D. She suggested eating out with my son but I don't know what that means..it may be that she just wanted to see my son, or she went just to try and get me and my son back together again. I think it's always bothered her that my son and I have not had a relationship.
I did talk with the MC on the phone yesterday. She thinks it will take 6 months minimum for us to get back what we had and have a better realtionship. The MC said I better see any attorney to protect myself. The MC still has hope. She says my W is just so angry and resentful.
