To agree to a D or not..... that is the question

[ACJ]

Oh what a night!!!!!!!

I got a TM from S15 at about 9.30pm saying he was at some night club and he wouldn't be home until 1am!

Long story short I ended up ringing H and asking him to go and get S15 out of the night club and bring him home. He wasn't happy but he did it.

Originally he told me that once he had found out where it was he would ring me back. Of course he didn't do that. The first I knew about him doing anything was when D17 asked why her dad's car was outside at 11pm. They continued to sit in the car for at least another hour. OW was with them. When they finally came in S15 had clearly been crying a lot. H wanted to talk to me but would only stand in the porch (despite the fact that he knew I had gone to bed ill and was in my dressing gown). He didn't say much apart from don't push him tonight and it's mostly hormones! He brought up again that he thought S15 should go live with him. I surprised him by saying that if that is what S15 wants he can do it.

This was an opportunity for H to have father and son time (even though it was late and in difficult circumstances) but for some reason OW felt the need to intrude. I can only assume that she didn't trust my motive for getting H here in the first place. Sad.

I think I have nearly made up my mind about the D