Woog,

I know you are heavily medicated , but you mentioned H was looking for my validation. Should I have given it to him? You also said he was wanting me to make it "easy" on him. Would my validating make it easy on him? Not sure if you are saying I SHOULD have "sold" him on the idea that us together was a good decision or not....

I guess either way that ship has sailed, since the discussion was almost a week ago. I wonder from time to time if I should have said something along the lines of, "Since you are doubting your ability to make good decisions, how about trusting MY judgement on this one? Give it a try and see if it is the right decision".

But I am also glad I didn't b/c I want him to have ownership of his own decisions, so he can't come back and say I "made" him do it--which would be total crap, but you know what I mean.

Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

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he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17