Hey Mink - just got done playing poker with the boys and need to unwind a bit before hitting the sack. Thought I would browse the boards and see how my DB buds are doing.
I can shed some light on your sitch.
When W and I attempted reconciliation, we went on a shopping spree for her. It was a LOT of fun. After a few days, she got real moody and began to question the gifts. My thinking was I just saved huge $$ on a divorce, this is peanuts.
What happened was that her guilt kicked in. While she enjoyed the moment, she felt that she was not a very good wife (which is true) and she did not deserve the gifts (which was also true). You may be dealing with that.
I believe your W is very confused, but I do think that she is pulling away. In my opinion, you have taken many steps backwards from the car wash and sex days.
I know this is heresy on this board, but how long can you go on like this? Keep your options open.
