I want to believe that she is thinking that way, that she is undecided about what she wants. I'm afraid that she is doing all this so we can "just be friends" and end this.
I am there with you on this Mike, I feel the same way, as W has even said that she wanted to keep this Professional.
She's just so pissed, hurt and can't get through her anger. I'm afraid when I answer the D papers that our sitch will get worse. I will have to answer them next week. The 30 day clock is ticking.
Once you sign the papers, how long do you have until D is final. I am sure your W is having second thoughts, she is inviting you to dinner, this is a good sign. Hopefully you will have some time for D to be final and you can prove to her that you are changing and these changes are going to stick.
What do I do. have a heart to heart with her about our sitch. Not talk about our R and just let it play out and see what happens?? make a last ditch plea? very confusing. [/quote]
I would not have a R talk to her, I have slid so much on this, once I see things going in what I see to be the right direction, I jump in full bore like I am about to shoot a 63 on the course and can't wait to talk about it. Keep things as they are, you and I both know that we can't have R talks and anything good come from it. You have some positives, think about these, W is going to MC with you, she is asking you out to eat. I am not getting any of that, they may be baby steps but you have to start somewhere.
