Good Luck this weekend BBJ. It is very brave of you to throw a decision date out for your H.. I pray that he chooses you, your children and your family are worth it.. from where I stand it's the obvious choice.. but since I'm also a LBS I can't comprehend how anyone can walk away without giving it there all.
It's interesting to me that you said you heard the "real Dan".. that is something I've noticed with my H too... just seems more normal.. less alien like, right? It's a nice, yet confusing, observation to see the person you love in there now and again.
