Out of the Blue?

[kturnernc]

Ha dont worry about it at all. I am doing ok right now. I have some good lawyers in my corner. They are ready and waiting if the need arises. Speaking of the need... the wife was actually really upset about some of the stuff that I told her was actually going to happen if she did the suit. Apparently her lawyer did not mention all the stuff that was going to happen and the cost of it all. Well, the wife has called the law dog and told her that she needed to stop the suit. That it was not what she wanted. GREAT NEWS!! She also called me the next night and told me that she thought that we needed to take a step back and work on all of this together. I whole heartedly agree. She was running hell bent on being divorced. She now realizes a bit that this is all a pain in the ass... for everybody! She also brought up the fact that she is going to call my therapist (he has agreed to do couples sessions) and set up an appointment. So things have turned around completely.

That being said, as much as i hate to say it, but it could be a ploy. I know that no amount of not liking or loving me, her being suspicioius of me or whatever will hold up in court. She has no proof because I have done nothing. I am a great father and was a good husband. The 180 she did was kind of sudden. Even though it was a week ago, still no papers my way or appointments made. So I am still half expecting to meet a summons one day. I don't know if i can trust her. Her actions up until this point have not been very nice at all, suddenly, she is being nice. I am going to sit back and see where it goes. I have made some good strides with DBing and will continue. I think some of the changes are becoming permanent, but I am still skeptical because of the short time frame. I will keep moving forward and DBing. If it is not helping my marriage be back together, it is certainly helping me as a person. I feel more positive!!

Oh, and a big thanks for all the positive vibes from here.