Kolle, you've got to take your meds regular for them to work. It is worse when you don't take them correctly. Please, do like the doctor tell you to. You need them to get you through this time in your life.

You could be right about your wife and the compliments....if she seems to be more happy with more compliments, than lay it on. In time, I hope you can reach a place where things can be "light" engouh between the two of you that you can start using that charm and do some flirting with her. That is when you can tell her how hot and sexy she is and that you have to sit on your hands to keep from ravishing her.....and see how she reacts to that. But, timing is everything and I don't imagine you are at that point yet. Keep working at it and you will get there. Her self-esteem has to be very low to need that much assurance and compliments on a daily basis.

I'm thinking of you. Sure and praying things will work out.

Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!