Thanks for your thoughts - it is amazing that we can offer help when we can't see our own sitch clearly. I appreciate you reminding me of that.
Just updating. I'm facing an even more touch decision re: the house. W is unable to assume loan by herself. Her father agreed to cosign a loan, but the mortgage broker said this is a terrible time to refinance and suggested we have an agreement where I'm taken off the title but she assumes all responsibility for loan and agrees to refinance within certain time period.
Thoughts?
Of course my conversation with her was fine. She asked again if I ran - 3rd time, why does she keep asking? Why am I trying to analyze everything she says? Anyway, I acted cheerful and got out fast. Have class tonight - not looking forward to a 10pm bike ride home.