Hi Angela & welcome to the board (although I'm sorry that anyone is in a sitch that leads them here).
I'm so pleased that anything I've posted has been valuable to you. I will check in on your thread and see how you're doing!
Journaling. Hmmm.. not sure where I left off with my previous post.. Did want to say a quick thanks to Stella for reminding me to give a status update on my Mom.. Frustratingly she has not received her results yet. I asked her to contact her family Dr to get the results.. She said she called yesterday and that they said they'd call her back.. they haven't yet done so. My Mom is assuming this means they haven't received the results yet. Still refusing to even think that something serious is wrong.. would rather only think VERY POSITIVE thoughts about her results unless I'm told otherwise.
As per H... not sure what's going on there. I am just doing my own thing.. I will admit that I have been a little sad since his departure on Tuesday night.. it was nice having him around.. I know D2 loved it too! But at the same time I'm not sobbing and hysterical.. just a little blue. His parents and my Mom came over last night.. and H came over too.. D2 was SO HAPPY!! She really loves seeing her Grandparents. Overall the visit was nice. H came over today as well. His plan was to attend my yoga class with me (we had done yoga together before we moved 7 years ago).. since his surgery I had him try a couple of downward dogs before we left.. just to be sure he wouldn't have too much pressure on his face... turns out there was some pressure but it was manageable.. the big problem was he was really dizzy when standing back up. I suggested that maybe he see how he feels next week.. he agreed.
Gosh, it feels like my sitch is so boring right now..... Friendship mode is I guess. I'm trying not to worry about him getting more into work over the next couple of months.. and the fact that he'll be spending more time with EA OW. I honestly try not to think about her at all... I'm not always successful but I do try. I may be kidding myself but for some reason I give A LOT of credit for my mental stability right now to taking yoga. I know I've only gone 3 times so far but I just feel so good when I'm practicing it!
Anyway, like I said.. not much to report... Oh, I guess I should mention on his 1st night away again he called & left a vm saying he arrived at the apartment alright and an "ILY".. and then the next day he called while D2 and I were out and said "I miss you guys." but still he's not here... he would prefer to still be on his own.
