Why is your son blaming you? If I remember correctly one of your H's complaints when he returned home was how untidy things were? Perhaps your children should stop pointing fingers in your direction and turn them around to point towards them. I'm not really comfortable with your son talking to him and in return you get blamed. What is your H saying to your S?
Teenagers are difficult, seperation/divorce makes things worse. I would like to see your children recognize how difficult things are FOR YOU and contribute more instead of just blaming.
Wow....he came like a thief in the day. Hmmm. Ok then so now you know he has some major issues he's facing. I know a bit of his background and the demons he's holding onto or rather the ones that are holding onto him.
What is your next course of action? Or inaction?
Do you think it's best for him to figure this one out on his own?
Perhaps now would be a good time to get full time employment?? This will get you out and around other people, increase your income, your children will have to show more responsibility and you'll have distractions to keep your mind off all the problems. (it doesn't work for me but it does help)
Thinking of you and wishing you the best!
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
