dry, H has strung me along for 10 months. Today he went to his T and finally asked about the names of some other Ts. That was my suggestion from my T..either an MC, someone to counsel on D or a family T. H brought hom the name of 3 Ts for "joint" parenting advice. Still didn't tell me wtf his plan was. After he left I sent a msg saying "I need an answer. Do you have any plans of ever working on us." I know it was bad DBing, but I am at the point where I need to move on and be happy with or without him. The reply "No I do not...sory. I have tried and just don't think there's any hope of things significantly improving." I then called an let him have it verbally. I went to my T appt. Then we "talked" after that. H refuses to forgive me for anything and move on. As long as he won't work on anything, we can't be happy. I want to be happy, so I'll start looking for someone that fits that bill. Kalni and BBJ want someone young. I hate to disappoint my gals, so I'll look for young.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008