RMG, The courts have done that and bascially broken things down 50/50 since she refused to do so earlier in the D. The biggest problem is that my STBX has never had to compromise so much in her life. her demands are completely one sided and meeting in the middle has not been successful. We have fought over things and she has a knack of doing it in front of our son. Also, the boundaries she sets are for me, not for her. Ultimately, she still wants to dictate when I have time with my son and essentially control teh situation.
If things are fair, then I am completely fine with that. Her past behavior has not shown that and coming to a compromise ends up being a bloodbath in front of our son.
ND,
I thought the court had established formal guidelines for visitation and the two of you were informally working on a different visitation schedule. I guess I was writing if you cannot come to an informal agreement with your W and she wants to always change it to suit her whims, you will need to have the court enforce the formal agreement.
Take Care,
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
