Hanging in there....

[MichelleLT]

I guess its sort of a desperate attempt at some sort of intimacy and closeness. I am also pretty much the only friend he has to talk to, kinda sad really.

I think I am also in this position occasionally with my H. In a way, it is a good place to be - an EA of sorts.

NOT my finest 5 minutes , but he actually apologized for it, I was shocked.

Well, sounds like he was actually receptive to the boundary setting! I'm glad he felt guilty about it. He's not as deep in the fog as before and is actually halfway considering his effect on other people!