I'd say, depends what they actually MEAN, when they say they want to feel "emotionally connected".

I can think of a coupla different meanings to that phrase. One of which means "you open up and disclose your feelings to him", and one does not at all.


I'm not sure that you really understand what he means.
(I'm not sure that HE really understands what he means either ;\) but maybe you need to start by at least asking him to give you more explaination on what he means by that phrase)

for example, what he could really mean is, "ILYBINILWY".
In which case, you "opening up your feelings to him", probably wont accomplish what he's looking for. Because really, it's all about HIS feelings, not about your feelings.

(gee, what else is new )


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle