I was wondering the same thing as Trixi. Whether its emotional connection or just a connection in general, the acting 'as if' seems to be counterintuitive. Why does this make the spouse want to come back, whether the case is that they are with someone else or if they are just not fully engaged in the marriage?
Errr... Sounds like both you and trixi, are maybe having confusion, by letting the "..." in "act as if..." be undefined.
"act as if.." what?
DomR, Okay, I hear you on the 'As if'. I knew that, just getting things confused. I think I was actually had detaching in mind. How does detaching work when what is lacking is an emotional connection?
