I got another e-mail from W who called me a bad father b/c if I gave her the whole weekend to be w/ D, then I wouldn't see D for 11 days. I didn't reply, but the truth is if I don't see D for that long it is b/c W denies me to see her during the week for no reason.
In my opinion, you should directly reply to her gripes, with that exact type of information.
Dont play mind games about that sort of thing. if you WANT to spend more time with your child, then TELL your wife that. Right now, your silence is saying that you dont want to spend more time with her.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle