Can we please at least just get back to normal posting and not down and out debate over all this? It is really driving me batty here folks.
Ok, lets take a blind eye to your A. So where are you now in getting your D busted? Are you going to be receiving papers soon? Has H agreed to wait a bit? As I remember, you had to be legally separated in your state for a year before a D can occur. That is an incredibly long time. Can that be overruled if infidelity is proven by either party? As you have been told before, dont lie on any forms or questions you are asked.