Hi Jak....I am still posting every once in awhile in Newcomers, but hardly find time anymore. maybe that is a good thing!!!???

H is doing great. He is here and making plans for the future. OW seems to be a distant memory but time will tell. I still have my radar up and ready for anything. I have been through too much in the past almost 2 years to relax yet. H could still change back to the alien at any moment. Sad to think that and I think I should be going with the moment and be happy, but don't want to be blindsided again.

Baby is wonderful and everyone here loves her. She has changed H in so many ways I can't even begin to tell you. He also quit drinking which made all the difference. He says he is ashamed of the things he did while drinking. Once again, I hope it sticks.

I will check in with you when I can. Hope you are doing good.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!