I realize this affair I am having is not anyone's idea of DB'ing here on this board and that is OK. I however have chosen to not live my life by what the DB book says. I gave 19 years of my life to a man that in the end decided an affair and then leaving me and the kids 3 days before Xmas was the RIGHT thing to do. It wasn't. And my relationship you feel isn't the right thing to do either.
Right now it is what works for me and for those that can't accept that this is the path I chose I understand that. You all will be the first with the, "I told you so's" being flung at me when I come back in 2 or 3 months boohoo'ing about this affair ending. Or maybe not, who knows.
Can we please at least just get back to normal posting and not down and out debate over all this? It is really driving me batty here folks.
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07
