Mary - sorry I haven't been able to check in lately. First I had no internet, then I've been really sick, and now my grandma passed away this morning.. so a lot going on.

I'm sorry that you're going through all of this.

When you bump your thread maybe you can post more detail about what it is you're looking for? I read through your post a few times and I don't really see what you're looking for in terms of a reply or advice.

I saw on another thread that Just_Me has chosen not to post anymore so I don't think you will hear from him (I think it's "him" not "her") again, but you could probably re-read his last few posts for advice/inspiration as well.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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