YOU can make this very hard for you or you can set your gears into a different state of mind: talking to a L and looking out for your best interests without turning into the stbx from hell.
Well that's a 2x4 if ever i saw one I already have a very good L. I'm sure my H already thinks of me as the stbx from hell but as we don't communicate at all I'm not sure why.
Yes a funeral is a big thing BUT it's not his grandma but his GFs
Last edited by ACJ; 04/17/0807:25 PM.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
I already have a very good L. I'm sure my H already thinks of me as the stbx from hell but as we don't communicate at all I'm not sure why.
