Sounds like it. It's a day-to-day struggle to try and figure out what when wrong when, as well as all of the junk that has accumulated over time to make us who we are today. Like you, SAM, my W is also evaluating things...things about us in the past and things about her past before me.
I think, now that you ladies have come around, you're in a more healthy and stronger place to do the soul-searching that needs to be done to really improve yourselves and to feel more fulfilled in your lives. Although exceedingly difficult at times, I'm convinced it can only help strengthen your resolve to do what needs to be done for you, and to improve your R with SBH. Good for you.
BTW, good luck on finding the home of your dreams! I'll send some positive vibes your way!
