Thanks -Buddy -I have been following your sitch (hope you don't mind)-As it appears your advise so sound and logical...As for other baggage yes-Indeed..
I have been deeply involved with Mans Guide to Great (R)and (M)BY David Cunningham.. It does appear -She is so much like he desribes in that guide.. Just ol' fashioned mans woman.. In addition to all the excess baggage and drinking..
Karen43,
I also started with your sitch-Reading as much as time is available..The experiences to include advise given I have been watching and learning from as in-fact providing an excellent resource in maintaining my self respect and mental stability..
See, atfer following advise as given from you all wonderful friends.. I went home this afternoon (next door about 5 acres across the farm)and there she is- What she didn't know -
WalMart has a special sale- Discount store SELL FOR LESS?? STEEL BALLS MADE TO FIT!! ONE SIZE FITS ALL.. THERE COMFORTABLE TO ONLY IF USED CORRECTLY..
DOWNSIDE: Like underwear - No refunds or exchanges allowed once used..
SO..........Here is what I declared :
1)I was firm (not condescending)- 2)Told her I and she will maintain self-respect and respect for our-self's and each-other.. 3)She will be at home to go to GYM with me today 4)She will re-pay or locate the gift certificate for dinner for 2 at that very nice restaurant. -That she threw away..As I provide surprises to keep (R)Healthy and exciting for her.. 5)But if I have to call and get permission or advise - Then I do not need a mommy -I want a woman.. 6)I am the Leader of my home 7)I am wonderful man to her - I choose to be.. 8)She will be a wonderful woman -But she will have to choose to be to me.. 9)I am a good provider 10)I am her protector 11)I am a worthy man 12)she is a worthy woman, 13)I have expectations of her - 14)As well as her expectations of me. 15)She is to take and nap and rest up, for this afternoon for the GYM with me... 15)Period..
Her reply :
Come over here and make LOVE TO ME!!!
I said -NO- I am going back to work - To be all that I know I am.. That you expect.. So I can provide. Rest and be ready for the GYM this afternoon with me.. LADY....
She said : Your turning down making Love ?
YES I AM !!! TODAY -and If your not a good girl or good to me-Then Tonight as well. !!!
Damn .. She responded with giggles and a smile...WTH is that?? Comfort and desired?? WTH??
Drinking is the 1st order of business for her to control Then us the (R).. As it is all about me for now......
UNTIL WE ARE A HEALTHY COUPLE ---
Well WHAT IS YALL'S TAKE ON ALL THIS ???
M:43 G/F:45 R: 1 yr and 8 months
We all want to be loved... With someone who is in Love with You
