Good advice GF. Its hard to keep cool, but if hes not done talking with OW, then he is not meeting you 1/2 way working on the marriage and that isn't going to help anything.

Stay strong and do it one day, one situation at a time.

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option