Well, Husband...since you aren't getting support from your W on quitting smoking, I guess you will just have to get it from us. So have you actually quit yet?
I understand what you mean about the snooping. Did you read the discussion about it on my thread? I feel I need to validate what H says. I just don't really think it is always bad. I don't think ignorance is bliss. However, have you thought about what you will do if you look and she is talking to OM?