unevitably aboard the D train...

[cat03]

Well, the amount is pretty huge OT, it is 23,000, wish I could get that much on my hands, I looked into loans, but the lowest they've got is 8%, and no way I'm going to burden myself so he can walk with that much on his hands (which he repeatedly told me he'd rather have of course).

My L is the one who told me he should only store his stuff there for a few mths, before I was totally ok with him leaving his stuff there until whenever (something he's whining about, how I said it was ok now I'm splitting hairs)

I wasn't expecting him to mow the laws as a friend, but as a trade off for allowing him to put his stuff there, to which he said it was still his house and he could put stuff there if he wanted to.

. He thinks that he owes you nothing but he's entitled to do whatever floats his boat.

mmm, hadn't thought about it like this, he does want his cake and eat it too.

This is pretty much the last thing we are not agreeing about Beth, then it is all done with the legal SA with the mediator, we are getting it all in writing.

Wish I wouldnt' have to talk to him OT, but because of kids I have to, sometimes he has court so he can't watch them, we need to talk about the pets he and s9 care for, etc etc, I can't help it. A while ago I did keep a stupid faint line of hope of "something", but honestly, at this point I am not looking for any connection, he might've as well live in the moon as far as i'm concerned.