All of the above is why, after having an awesome weekend away with W, I am pulling back myself. I am watching her very closely, and I see the 'usual' pattern after we have positive interaction: Her going a bit quiet and not initiating any contact.

I acted 'as if we were a couple' during the weekend, but now I am 'acting as if we are apart'.

Monitor results, change if required.

I will just let her be for now and see what happens.


Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!