h and I had counseing today (to discuss issues with Isabella). Went VERY bad. counselor was horrible and didn't even act like his ow was a "big deal" or what he did is a "big deal", including not coming home the day she was very sick (duaghter). H says (of course) he doesn't want to continue counseling, but I will continue (with my own therapist).

I hate his guts right now. He's just got everything "sewn up" in his head and that's it. No big dealthat our daughter has been crying every day at school and the nights he doesn't come home. When this was brought up, he didin't even look guilty or sad. I is truly an alien.
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I'm at a loss right now and really need advise. He says he's going to move out (that wasn't our agreement, we agreed to 3 months of therapy before that happened). I'm scared for him to move out financially even though my lawyer assured me that he will still have to pay the mortgage, etc.

This is a "fault" state and he said he's going to file. He doesn't have anything to sue me for, I'd have to file (just got off phone with attorney).

God, I hate this.