Lostforwards,

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The WAS see's the reality of their choices the greatest when the LBS start a relationship with some one else.


That is nonsense. When you start a relationship with someone else, you are bringing a 3rd party into things. If the goal is to save your marriage, then you are using that other person.


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I have read some of the DB successes on this board and also on three or four other boards and I see a common thread in about 50% of them.


Again, nonsense. I have been around here for 7 1/2 years off and on (versus your 2 omnths). If that 50% number was true, I would know it.

What it comes down to is this. If you are having an affair, you are not DBing. End of story.

IMP