It is easy to get discourage, rebuilding trust is a long hard road especially if he is still in contact with her. I recommend you ask him to notify you when he is all done with talking to her. He chose you, he came home to you! In his mind although the thinking is wrong, he believes because you want him back you have forgiven him and completely trust him.
You don't and for good reason, let him set the schedule, trust he will be honest and let him know that if something seems strange you will question it. Also let him know you need some reassurance also and that it takes time to rebuild trust.
You will be okay if you keep your cool.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
