Midst of D, R even further on the downswing

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I have tried to take the appropriate steps to difusing the situation. Two days ago, as soon as I came home from work, she left and did not return until 10. So yesterday, I made sure I was not home until 10pm myself.

I have told her that I am willing to work with her but she has to be fair. She really has never been able to do that in her life so that is one reason why she is having difficulty now.