Question: If a Spouse is complaining of a lack of emotional connection, but the DB theory is to "act as if" and not put pressure on the WAS- how do you make those two things fit together?
Errr... I dont see how those two things ARE related??
If the WAS is complaining about lack of emotional connection... then shouldnt the LBS be trying to improve that, in whatever ways they believe would be helpful? Not sure what "act as if" has to do with the situation.
Anyways, have a nice trip
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle