Neecy, sounds like a lawyer is a good idea for your protection. But I do think they are somewhat salespeople, all thinking divorce is fantastic kind of viewpoint. That's what my L talks like, life will be so great after divorce, and I am sure my husband's L says the same thing to him! So I wouldn't rush into anything and take a careful pace, and don't let the L rush you into anything!
Glad to hear you are having some peace & detachment; I think that is the good part of Hs moving out. Are you still GALing and trying to do things you enjoy to keep up your PMA? I know that is hard to do when going through all this, but it has helped me a lot. Karen
I know that is hard to do when going through all this, but it has helped me a lot. 
