unevitably aboard the D train...

[cat03]

OT, I also think 5yrs is too much, but he tells me it's still his house until he's all paid off and I take his name off the deed, which I can't until I refinance and that's not looking good, my rate is nice and low. So, until the loan I paid he thinks he should have his stuff there. I suggested at least he could mow the lawn, he said he'd think about it, then called (perhaps talked to ow? who knows, dont' give a rat @ss anymore) and he was adamant that he had too much on his plate, too much to deal with and that I was the one squabbling over small things, splitting hairs, that I have been fighting him every step of the way, that he has agreed to so much already (waiting 5yrs for his money) and that I just want to squeeze all I can from him.

DEEP BREATH.... this jerk isnt' going to make me upset anymore.

He said it'd be "tying him to me" to agree about the grass (HELLO???? and what about tying ME to him that after the D can come and put stuff there???) We had talked about 2x a month and that he had to call me first to make sure it was ok.
That he was having too many problems as it is, that he had to cut his mom's grass and that it's be another bone of contention between us, even as I said he had to cut it only 6x a year when he could.

He has been totally inflexible about the latest things, he got wed. mornings, got to claim my son, and now he won't give in an inch.

I"m very tempted to tell him it's 4yrs and that's my limit. HE had the nerve to tell him that he was forced to be bringing up just going through Ls and court so many times because Ive been so inflexible, I told him it is him loosing his mind not me.

I really really wish it'd be only email, but he still doesnt' have internet.