I believe that it will allow both of their guilts to negate each other. My W wanted me to have an A also so as to relieve some of her guilt.
Forrest - if you are still out there, I want to thank you very much for some advice you gave someone else that I took up recently - batting cages. Last night I hit around 200 balls in the "very fast" cage - very addicting! I ended up buying some batting gloves afterwards and am really looking forward to go again.
