I hypocritically of course tell people who first get here not to snoop. "Do as I say not as I do." Because when you first get here snooping is bad. It is bad for you.
When you're in piecing. I think it is vital, you are rebuilding broken trust, freely given trust is worth the price you sold it for. Nothing.
They have to know you are going to look. I told my wife I would. I still do upon occasion. She knows I will not go through this crap again for her, she knows that we are rebuilding trust, and that I will do this. The longer we go without inncident the less and less I look.
2-3 years to rebuild trust, and that is when it is deserved.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 04/17/0804:47 PM.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
